J.M.: The best method for that, I think, would be the same at any other time, is that just "be yourself". When you're being in any relationship, buisienss or personal, people just want you to be honest or to be real. So if you sit down for that 5 Minutes, think about what is the most important things in your life and let them know.
最好的方法，我想，这是任何时候都一样的，就是做你自己。当你处在某种关系中的时候，工作上或私人关系上的，人们都是希望你诚实和真实。所以，当你坐下来应对所谓的5分钟约会，只要想清楚什么是你生命中最重要的东西，并且让对方了解你的想法就够了。
主持人: hello,Joshua, my question is how can i ask someone for a date ? what is a better way to say it ?
下一个问题，Josh你好，我想问，我怎样才能邀请别人去约会呢？怎么开口比较好？
J.M.: Once again, at least in the American culture, the best way is just to be honest. Americans are a little more direct, sometimes in Chinese cultrure, your culture, much more polite. You can tell her that "you are very smart" "I think you are very great", "you are very beautiful". Whatever the reason, give them the reasons that you want them to go on a date with you.
和刚才一样，至少在美国文化中是这样，最好的办法就是诚实。美国人更直接，而有时候中国文化可能更客气。你可以直接告诉她，我认为你很聪明，你很棒，你很漂亮。什么理由都可以，只要告诉她你想和她约会的理由就行。
主持人: Can we ask you something you've done on your first date that was embarrassing?
可不可以给我们讲讲你第一次约会,有没有发生什么尴尬的事？
J.M.: Might be many of those. One of those things I did on my first date that was embarassing might be my date that got to use the bathroom. What we got used to, a bathroom, is a misread, the side on the door. She walked into the bathroom, and I walk into the same bathroom after her. I feel very silly.
好像有很多。我第一次约会，我记得有件尴尬的事情是关于使用卫生间的。我们习惯上说的浴室，是误解。她去了卫生间，而我也进了同一间。很傻的。
主持人: Thank you for your spectacular responses. Now let's look at some dates regarding of the business meaning that our audience have. Dear Josh, I have to get to know my foreign colleagues, but I don't know what to say to them other than, Hey the weather is nice today. Could you help me out here?
谢谢你的精彩回答。下面让我们来关注一下工作层面的约会。一个词友问，Josh，我想了解走近我的外国同事，可我不知道除了“今天天气很好”之外还能说些什么。你能不能在这方面帮帮我？